Parents Whose children have been sexually abused Community Group
This group is for parents whose children have been sexually abused. We welcome both Mothers and Fathers. Here, we can offer support to one another. We can vent, cry and lift each other up. No condemning or criticizing allowed. We are here for support. We LOVE (((HUGS))) !
I have only heard of this being given when a child was sexually abused and they were worried she was pregnant..So they gave her meds to block it until she turned 13. Other than that I have not heard of it. She was 10 then. In this case it worked and she had no issues, but don't know your circumstance. I hope this helps you gentle hugs casey
We have been doing specific focusing on "blood" for EMDR with her therapist and will be adding "needles" to that as she has had panic anxiety when the dentist had to use a needle on her & that is how this medicine will be administered. For EMDR, She drew pictures of monster boy hurting her, monster boy scribbled out & 4 weapons including scissors & knives as what she thought of when she thinks of the word "blood." LOTS of work to do still, obviously!
I will update this thread for anyone else who needs info on precocious puberty (which my daughter does not technically have/she's borderline) & puberty blockers. Here's hoping we make the right decision!
They say that growth chart predictions put her between 5'2" & 5'5"as an adult...I am 5'6" & My hubby is 6'. The puberty blockers are supposed to give her a bit more growing time but slower growth rate. I am so glad that height us not as much a factor for girls when they grow up. *sigh&
THIS IS A PHYSICAL MANIFESTATION OF HER SEXUAL ABUSE STARTING AT 4 YEARS OLD! They stunted my daughter's growth and forced her body to grow up way too early! Not to mention her psychological struggles in regards to becoming a woman...triggers of blood, needles, pictures...
And yet, even though I am SO hurt that we have to deal with this, somehow I have mostly forgiven them. I say mostly because there are two individuals that I'd have to see in person to evaluate if I truly forgave them...
Anyways, her 1st shot in the bum is the day after her drama show is over. Luckily, my mother-in-law will be here to help with the munchkins. Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers! Hoping we make some real progress in EMDR this week!