I have a 21 year old son that lives with me. I need a new hip and recently got burned by hot tea and had second degree burns. I am out of hospital but still need treatment and hip is so bad that I can hardly walk so I can' work. So I need his help. He works part time and does help pay for things. But he also cost me a lot of money. He Jacks his heat up in his room and when I tell him he says it is to cold for him.he had it at 75. I can' trust him cause he lied about it. But I could feel the heat down the steps not first time he did it. He yells at me and swears when I confront him about his lieing. He acts like a 2 year old. I have been called all kinds of nasty names.  I tell him to stop and he says then shut up and do not piss me off.  He won' get a full time job he needs a car. But there are other times he is nice and helps me. I have no one else to help me since my husband passed away . He spends money foolishly buying junk to resell. He makes videos and puts on YouTube all the time saying he is going to be a huge star and make money off of them. He had been accepted at 18 to art school. His father and I went and talked to them to find out about aid and they told us they want to speak to our son he blew it cause he would not talk to them. But yet he said he wanted to go. after my burn treatment I will get my hip done and I told him the house is to much work and I am selling it and he will not be moving with me. I wI'll not  be treated this way and will not need help.  He has even swore at me in public. Once at church.  And I even told him he need to get therapy tells me he will and never does. I don' t know what to do.