Parenting Toddlers (1-3) Support Group
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boys are always the hardest to train. i would recommend getting the potty and allowing your son to explore it. then sit him on it fully clothed so he gets used of the idea of sitting on it. then move to sitting him on it with a diaper on. finally sit him on the potty without the diaper.
i would do each step for a few months before moving to the next one.
i am in the process of getting my son used to the potty and sitting him on it fully clothed. he usually tells me when hes wet and wants a dry diaper on right now.
When you first start, it helps to strip him down to just a diaper. Watch for any body language when he's about to go to the bathroom. You'll soon find out that he will give subtle hints when he does. My daughter does a little pee-pee dance, alternating shifting her weight between each foot. For number 2, she goes rigid in a standing position and will sometimes go up on her tippy toes. A lot of kids give similar signs. My nephew used to grab at his shirt and pull down on it every time he had to go.
I'm not in any hurry to potty train my daughter. She's nowhere near ready yet. Putting too much pressure about it will only make it less appealing. She has gone through a few stages of being anti-potty, but they tend to pass quickly. For the most part, my daughter loves her potty- it sings to her and gives her praise. It makes her laugh. She'll be 2 next month.
After a couple of months she turned 2. At 2 she asks to go potty in the big girl potty. She is always wet when she askes but at least she knows being wet means she needs to go to the potty. We have put her in big girl panties with pull ups over them so she can feel it when she is wet right away instead of filling up the diaper to realize she is wet. With this change she is asking right away now instead of waiting till she had a full diaper to go potty.
We just started this phase of potty training so I'll have to get back to you on how well it works, however, it worked wonders with my cousin and her 2 girls.
The only thing I know about potty training a boy is this... It is best to teach them to sit on the potty and use it first and then move to standing up. Otherwise you are asking for peepee on the shower curtain, walls, and prob even yourself. LOL. A friend of mine has a boy and while trying to potty train him he got so excited he hit the potty while standing he turned around and peed all over his mom.