Honestly I don't know where to begin. My 17 year old son was diagnosed with adhd and odd when he was 10. So that may explain some of what I am to tell you. I can't cope with this. I asked him to do his chore. His reply was to ask what chore his sister had. His sister is 38 weeks pregnant and can barely stand for very log because her feet are so swollen. He said if she didn't have a chore neither did he. Nothing I said did any good. We only ended up arguing and he went to his gradmothers for the night. The next night his father went and got him, he came home did his chore and went to bed. Now is where it gets crazy. I was laying on my bed. I had not spoken to anyone, he came into my room and asked why I was mad. Now laying on my bed is normal for me so again I had done nothing to indicate that I was mad. I said I wasn't mad. He kept asking and I kept telling him I wasn't mad until I started getting aggravated with him. He asked why I was getting the attitude and I told him it was much like the attitude he had given me a few days earlier. He said F*** this sh** I'm leaving. I told him couldn't leave. After that I think it was all just a big mess. He went to his room for awhile,Then back to my room going through my things. I told him to get out of my room. He shoved me. My son n law tried to hold him down on the bed. He got loose. He went to his room and got his shotgun. ( My stepfather gave all his grandsons a shotgun) He told me he was going to shoot me and everyone else in the house and then shoot himself. Of course I called the police and yes he is sitting in juvenile. The question I am left with is how do I get past this when they release him to come home? How do I trust him enough to sleep under the same roof with him? I do love him..I have been to see him once and being around him makes me nervous...I don't know what to do...Someone plz help...