Is there a male in your life that he likes? It could boyfriend, uncle,?

This person can show him how a ma does it, and make him feel like big boy,

Reward and take away, but no fussing at him, that only makes him retreat to his corner.

He might be jealous of the baby and you admit spending more time with the baby, So he knows if baby wee's and poo/s then he gets hug, and baby does it in his diapper. But why can;t that happen to him?;
Admire him for being big brother, Say you need his help. you and he devise a small chart to record wee's and poos, he can color it then hang it by the toolit
When he does one he gets one treat A small toy, candy , and when he goes in his pants, he has to give the toy back, Just might work
If he is ill it does not count.

BJ

Honey, I also need to add , please try not to rush him, Kids to it when they are ready to do it. Being a boy, he needs a mn toshoe him, just not touch him.
My grandson is 4, and he just finally got it !! And still there are accidents when he is ill, distracted by toy or tv, in a hurry and forgets...

BJ

Do you have two whole days you can devote to potty training your son? I have custody of my 3 year old granddaughter and attempted to potty train her but I was not consistent. On facebook I whined about how difficult it is to potty train 3 year old when someone posted - how to potty train your child in two days." I read it and followed the suggestions. It does take focus . I started placing my granddaughter on the potty every hour or every 1.5 hour. I only let her wear panties -- no pull-ups. Pull up are like diapers and kids will not feel the discomfort of being wet. When my granddaughter wet her panties she felt very uncomfortable,

No I did not potty train my grandchild in two days but she was well on her way . It took a couple more weeks until she was completely potty trained. Here is one mother's experience with potty training her child. I find it helps to read other parents experience with potty training. Good luck to you http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mommy-nearest-/how-i-survived-the-potty-training-process_b_5551451.html

Im in the same boat with my daughter.She will be 3 next month and we now have a 2 week old son. She is just how you described your son... not interested in using the potty and isnt bothered by poo or pee in her pull up. I have my husband to help and we get a lot of support from his parents but it is still a big challenge with her. I know she will do it in her own time but the hardest thing right now is adjusting to the new baby with all the lack of sleep and constant diaper changes and constant nursing sessions and still trying to potty train and do my daughter's diaper/pull up changes. Im having a real hard time with it too. I will be following this feed to see what others suggest but feel free to keep in contact with me if you just want to vent with someone who is going through the same thing. Congrats on your new baby boy and wonderful toddler :) Im sure even with the potty training struggles you are just in heaven like I am too :)

Kids will tell you when they are ready. Forcing the issue is not going to help. Good luck.

Hi! Have you tried using like skittles or M&M's as a bribery tool? With my son, thats what i did. I started giving him a treat every time he went. When he became more consistent, I only gave them to him when he pooped in the toilet Then it was only if he went all day with no accidents. Everyone is ready at different times so just keep trying! I am not a single mother, so I have the support of my boyfriend to help me. One thing I noticed with him was that he was asking our son if he wanted to go potty, giving him the chance to refuse. Telling him instead "it is time to go potty", eliminates this choice. I hope this helps you!

I went through this with my daughter. She turned 3 a month after I had my son. I got a lot of crap from people saying she needed to be potty trained before he came and they couldt understand why she wasnt potty trained and her younger cousins were. My daughter is very strong willed and so she faught it hard. I stopped really trying towards the end of my pregnancy. Two weeks after the baby wad born she wanted to start trying the potty alot. Thats been 3 months now. It defr hasnt been easy and nuraing a new baby living on no sleep and high stress hasnt helped. She is in panties all the time now but shes still mastering it.
This is just my experience but trust your gut. Your kid will do it when hes ready. Have patience and just meet your son where he is. Give yourself a break too. I know alot of people do it in a couple days or a week with their kids and thats awesome. That would never work with my daughter for her personality and the fact of having a new baby to take care of I didnt have the time to oley focus on training.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel. I have been where you are and I know it gets better. Dont worry what others think. You know your kid and what works best for you and him.
Good luck. ;)