Parenting Big Kids (5-8) Support Group
This community is focused on the joys, challenges and concerns faced by parents of big kids (5 to 8 year olds). The major areas of child development include: physical development, perception and sensory development, communication and language development, cognitive development, emotional development and social development. Join to share your stories and get advice.
I think fascination plays such a role early, as does their learned behaviors, that you can't really centralize their feelings at that young of an age. It's actually kind of comical at times!
My 5YO daughter comes home weekly with stories of how this kid is her BF & when I ask 'What happened to so-and-so? I thought he was your BF?' she replies 'Oh, well we're not BF & GF anymore, but we decided to still be good friends. Cracks me up!
Kids are in such a rush to grow up, to prove themselves in school, society, etc. that I believe it's natural for them to be ahead of the curve compared to us, yet still in the infancy stages of understanding. So much more information readily available to them that they talk so much of what they don't know.
Some things you just gotta take worth a grain of salt and have faith in how you've raised them.