Overcoming Shyness Community Group
This group is created as an attempt to help people overcome shyness through building confidence and recognizing as well as reducing the pervasive fear which causes shyness.
Hi,
I really want to overcome my shyness so much! Its plagued me like a disease from when I was born. I could atleast chat with boys when I was 3 to 7 years old, but now I can't even have a conversation with them. What I'm trying to say is I believe my blushing, is stopping me from overcoming my shyness. Because whenever I am even a few steps from a guy who is not one of my brothers or my father, I will go bright red.
So yeah I really want to overcome this, I just don't know how
I really want to overcome my shyness so much! Its plagued me like a disease from when I was born. I could atleast chat with boys when I was 3 to 7 years old, but now I can't even have a conversation with them. What I'm trying to say is I believe my blushing, is stopping me from overcoming my shyness. Because whenever I am even a few steps from a guy who is not one of my brothers or my father, I will go bright red.
So yeah I really want to overcome this, I just don't know how
I always find it really hard coz once you start blushing you get really embarassed and then you blush even more. It makes me go kinda purple coz I'm pretty pink anyway!! But some guys out there will find it cute coz they might have similar problems with confidence so they might immediately think 'oh, she's like me!' Also- I think its better looking healthy and pink rather then tired and all pale!
Overcoming it is hard.........hopefully it'll come with time. You need to have a good experience in a conversation with a guy to build your confidence up. I'm still working on it tho!