Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) Support Group
Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) an ongoing pattern of disobedient, hostile, and defiant behavior toward authority figures that goes beyond the bounds of normal childhood behavior. When a child cannot seem to control his anger or frustration, even over what seems to be trivial or simple to others, the child will often react in violent or negative ways to his own...

I'm sorry that you are having to deal with this. I wish I had words of advice. Just know you're not alone
He also never wants to leave the house. It's always an argument to try to convince him to do something with the family. It's so sad to go out without him but that's inevitably what happens 99% of the time. But we can't be gone for too long because he won't eat or do his homework..
Reading posts I can relate to helps my mental health. Thank you for sharing!