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Sex life being obese

Ann29
Ann29

Hello! 


I found this group and I really would like to listen some experiences with sex. I have a boy who I really like, but thinking about being sexually with him is making me to feel anxious. I am totally aware he is ok with my body, he has told me we would like to be with someone fat and he really likes me.He hasn't seen it without clothes and I just feel afraid of my body and my ability for sex. I haven't had problem with my body, but then thinking about sex made to realize I have it, I just avoided it. 


How have you overcome being afraid of dating and having sex?


How do you embrace yourself to be positive about your encounters with someone else?


Thank you!!

Bobby5000
Bobby5000
First realize, men like seeing women naked, its the women of all types who criticize themselves. If you're worried, add a few oos and ahs, some yes, yes, into the mix. If you're comfortable with him, one thinks this experience will be good for both of you.

I would not spend too much time though, revealing your doubts. Turn down the lights a little, have a drink, and go for it, but don't spend too much time discussing your doubts, etc. He wants to go to bed with you, he's already said that.