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Nothing like protein .
http://www.livescience.com/51976-carbohydrates.html
Read that ^^^ it explains the importance of carbs and the misconceptions.
I know that carbs can kick my fanny too. All our bodies are different but I find that if I keep my net carbs at or below 150 grams/day I generally feel better. Even if I'm running a BIG calorie deficit, if I'm high in carbs I just feel icky and will hold fluid because of the carbs.
I'm not carb-phobic but the starchy carbs like you listed Lillian are just things I can't eat much of. On the other hand, I can eat a LOT of fruit and still stay under 150 grams a day. Good thing since I like my fruit ;-)