Have you tried any type of relaxation therapy. I tried this and it did help once but then my wife tricked me in a blood test and I had no time to prep now I have been having panic attacks ever since. Even a week or more afterwards. Granted they have been getting less severe as the days progress but I can't get most of the images or feelings out of my mind. Or worse I run through all the images again so I can figure out when she is going to trick me again. I've only had 4 blood tests in my 33 years so far but this last one really did me in. There is a website dedicated to some of this stuff here http://www.needlephobia.info/ and some where they will tell you the types of phobia and how one might solve it. I hope you can find some help at least see a therapist since you are trying to become pregnant and you have to be strong for your baby. I have been trying to find help on and off but since the end result is another blood test and seeing my quack doctor that doesn't even believe I have needle phobia I'm not looking forward to any more treatments.