I was married for over 33 years, I have 2 grown childen. A daughter who is married and a son who is still at home. In 2013 He received an Alot of money, Before I was cut out of my own life , I believed it was well over a 140.000$ dollars. mayb more, I was ledt with his pay check and started to get disiabilty with the help of the office manager. She passed. I was then lost, She was moving me into a better apt. Help with getting into a short program for a job, To Get the FUCK away from him. No one him. He wasn't there long. I was left to forgotten, So sorry for the long rant. he came back and said we had to move in a week. the few friends I had begged me not to go. I could not support myself. Then promises about how he wiill go to therepy ,stop this stop that. It was all bullshit. I was seeing a monster. He destroyed me while we lived out ther for 4 years, worse Son came hme in the middle of it. Had brokenup with girlfriend, He has been more rhan damaged. He had a GF out there for over 3 years. He had sex with anyone and I just found out 1 of them was a family members ex, I listened to hate speaches about how he hated me rom day 1.We were not married he said, bc it was not in a church. The police, An income tax lady. The mail lady would not give me my own mail. He used other addresses for bank statements, I have to stop. I get so upset It was like living in a nightmare with no escape and you were never going to wake up the only way out was thru. I did file for divorce I saved and begged lawyers for over a year. Finally 1 took a 300 dollar payment. When he received it, He thru me in a Detriot Wayne County Jail and left me there. It took my daughter 4 days to find me. I will stop there. Mayb explain more later. I have no friends, bc of him. I have no family bc my mother was crazy and pitted her children against each other, She died Jan. 21 2020. I thought I might b able to reconnect but my older sister said to me I was nothing more than his whipping post, I was humiliated, I cried,, I canot do this . I am taking zanex to sleep. I thought that was so harsh and brutal. I don't think i will bother with her. If it was happeneing to my sister I would get her out and get help? Right?