I just got back with my narc ex after 4 years. We’ve been seeing each other for about 6 weeks and it’s been heavenly.  I knew before we got back together that he had a small picture hanging in his garage of the girl he was seeing after we broke up. They lasted almost a year;  when I first saw the picture I was shocked and he said it was nothing, just a memory, but it still bothered me.  Last weekend we had a few drinks and I went into the garage and turned the picture around in the frame so that all you could see was the back of it lol.  I told him the next day what I had done and he was absolutely livid,  which I was not expecting at all.  After him not speaking to me for three days we finally saw each other today and he said that it was an invasion of his privacy, even though I didn’t destroy the pic.  I apologized for my actions and told him that the picture bothers me and that my feelings do matter, but he doesn’t seem to care at all and is acting like I committed some hideous crime.  He doesn’t really want to talk to me and I am devastated, I don’t really know what to do