Narcissism Community Group
For those learning about or recovering from narcissistic abuse.
Im coming out of a severely abusive relationship with a covert narcissist who has bamboozled 3 therapists over the last 3 years. I found a therapist out of state, and he is under his care now. I was hanging in there, with my own appointments, but Apr. 6, I couldnt take anymore, and ended our relationship. I am educating myself and grieving. I also had a very bad accident trying to get to a professional to protect my computer information, as he had all my passwords etc. and fell down to bottom story. 5 fractures but I am healing. WHAT AN UNPRESIDENTED TIME OF ANXIETY. Anyone else new to separation/
I mean he sends the therapist on a wild goose chase away from the narcissistic traits and onto many different issues... his mom, someone at work, me.... but directs through avoidance AWAY from the core issue... which is narcissistic/emotionally abusing me through gas lightning, minimizing, scapegoating, blame shifting, sanitizing, etc. Does that help explain? IT IS A SECONDARY INJURY to the victim because NOW THE THERAPIST IS JOINING THE ABUSER in the wrongness of his partner. Horrible. BUT IM DOING BETTER TODAY.. seems like little mini breakthroughs. so grateful.