I am so so sorry.take care
Ann

So very sorry, understand.
Annette

I wish I could make you feel better, but all I can do is send hugs, love and prayers. My heart goes out to you. Deb

Oh Barb, that is so hard, I lost my brother last month, very suddenly so I feel your pain of not saying goodbye. Pray for him and try to know he is headed to a better place.

hugs!

Sorry to hear what you are going through Barb

Barb I lost my mom in 2011 and she was in florida while I was stuck in indiana so I understand how you feel SO VERY SORRY JUST DO THE BEST YOU CAN AND HE WILL UNDERSTAND!!
A BIG HUG FOR YOU
Chuck

Your dad would want you to take care of yourself right now. He knows you are with him in spirit.

If there is a way for someone there to hold a phone up to his ear you might well be able to talk to him and have a chance to express your feelings. That might give you some peace.

I feel like at times like this our love transcends time and space.
Hugs to you and to him, Marie

So sorry to read of this pain you are going through. Sending wishes for strength and peace of mind.

Barb I'm so sorry to hear your news. Your need to stay connected is very well understood by hospice's. They care not only for patients but support the entire family both near and far. It's part of the Hospice mission.

I would ask for calls from his care team. Weekly, daily, whatever YOU need to help ease your mind.

Trained hospice Volunteers can offer peace of mind that someone will be there, to sit by his side, hold his hand, no agenda, just be present.

If dad is unresponsive you can still speak to him. Arrange with staff regular calls and have them hold the phone to his ear. I recall a a similar situation at the hospice I worked for where the volunteer was at the house and received regular calls from the granddaughter. She sang to him every week. Not a dry eye in team meeting.

Please take extra care of yourself Barb during this stressful time.
Larissa

Hi Barb,

I really understand how you feel and I am so sorry. Try not to be hard on yourself. You got some good advice above. You need to take care of yourself.

Judith

I am sorry that you are feeling lost. Although physically separated you are emotionally with your dad and giving him your love and support. I hope you feel that connection and that it gives you both peace.

Barb so very very sorry..I know how you feel...Went thru something similar with my Mom..He knows you are with him no matter what..I send prayers and hugs your way that you and Dad will find peace..He would want you to take care of yourself also...Again love and prayers..

Barbara , Im sorry of what your feeling and know what your feeling having gone thru those feelings myself a short time ago.
Keep the faith and many thoughts and prayers to you..Cj

I am sorry for your pain and suffering. Be strong and we are here for you.

Sorry you can't be with your father!!