Sorry to hear you having a hrd time..I think that somtimes our husbands get frustrated because they want us to feel better and don't know what to do..My husband gets sad somtimes and exspreses it with anger..I am sure your husband just wishes he could make you feel betterand because they don't live it they also have a hard time understanding it..I am grateful to have a great and understanding suppoertive husband. when my MOM was DX my dad could not handle it and left her..There was a part of him that did not believe her.. When i was DX you should have seen the exspression on his face. hang in there HUGS, Renea

Wow.. You are going through a lot right now... MS does affect your memory..I have good times and bad times with memory.. when I know that I am having a "bad time" I make extra notes and pay extra attention when people are talking because i tend to zone out and people have to repeat themselves and they get frustrated... It could be the meds, or the MS.. who knows.. When I was in the process of being dx'd I was married for a few years. the day I got the definative dx my husband left me.. He didn't want to be with a "sick girl". I am currently dating a wonderful man (6 years now) and he gets frustrated with me when I have a "bad nemory day" nut he picks on me too... I just tell him how he is making me feel and he usually stops.. sometimes people don't realize how they make us feel...Hang in there.
Lisa

Have your husband read this sp he knows its not your fault. http://www.webmd.com/hw-popup/Cognitive-problems-caused-by-multiple-sclerosis
Educating him may be the key.
DD

You are not alone, I know that my family members get frustrated with me and my memory. Or lack of it. I just wanted to tell you that I'm thinking of you, what an awful stressful time you are going through! I wish we had a huge MS place of gathering and enough money (all of us) that we could set up meetings with everyone there, it just seems so necessary to be with someone that understands! (I know that some of you will say support group...but in my area, the only people that go are so negative that I can't handle it. I want understanding but I refuse to be drug down into a pit of hell). Take care of yourself!

Now see you guys are all so nice...grin..
i have had memory issues since the dx with epilepsy most of the meds cause memory issues and then we all know that MS plays havoc with memory as well...grin.. so i am screwed when it comes to memory... but i do try..and some days are pretty good...
And i must admitt my husband is doing well considering we have only been married for 6 years.. but when he really gets on my nerves about my memory ,, i get sarcastic.. (yeah yeah i know its in my nature)... i put one of those name tag things on him.. for example.. which he promptly rips off
one thing i really hate is when i am watching something on t.v. and i know we have all been there.. and he comes along and says ....you have seen this before dont you remember??... he will ask me that aprox.. 8 times during the show.. about 10 minutes in i have of course remembered the show.. but hell no im not going to admitt it now.. i patiently wait until the end and then tell him that yep i remembered and exactly when.. and next time if he does not pester so much then i would have changed the channel...
this took place with a re run of criminal minds...heh heh heh ..it was okay it was a good eposide...grin..
serves him right...grin..lmao
Another favorite and i know your going to think im mean for this one...and goose if you read this you cannot tell next time we have coffee...lmao
if he is really starting to bug about the memory thing....rofl
i hide things on him...grin.. car keys ,, sun glasses..etc.. not hide..hide.. if you know what i mean,, but pick them up from where he put them down and move them to an out of the way spot...grin.. then when he is looking for them...i smile oh so nicely and say..dont YOU remember where they are hon?...lol
have some fun with it people... dont let them beat you down.... just if your going to switch places of where he put something for gods sake write it down somewhere...lol... in case you forget..rofl

Memory loss can be the result of MS, but it can also be the result of too much stress. You said that you were diagnosed 6 months ago and that your medications have been going through changes. Without a doubt that is a lot of stress all by itself. It may be that the memory loss is more related to your plate being too full as they say.
I understand what you are saying about your husband. Mine does the same thing. I have had MS for over 10 years now, and recently I am having memory losses. Sometimes he will tell me something and then he has to tell me again, because I know he said something but what is beyond me. I am sort of phasing out. He is getting very frustrated with this. It is so funny because he never is tired of the wheelchair or loading and unloading it. But the fact that I can't remember what he is saying makes him angry. Remember our husbands try hard to understand and to continue life as it was before and they forget that we have limitations now that we didn't have a few years ago. They know it, but don't live it until it hits them in the face like not remembering something that they just said. They are trying to put this all together also. I know my husband loves me a lot, and I know that he would never hurt me on purpose, but sometimes he says things without thinking about what I am feeling or doing at the moment. Sometimes he just has to be reminded not to expect the same things that he had before from me and then he seems to be ok.