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ilotusflower
ilotusflower
Sorry I have not been on here forever...and when I do...I bitch :(

A lot has happened in the last year...I met a man and fell deeply in love...moved into his house and became a part of his daughters life. Got a new amazing job...but not all was good as it seemed. My lovely man had a deepemotional scar that came out more and more...He has PTSD...the more this "other"man was around the more my MS was around as well. I love him so much!!!! and I know he loves me...but the worse I got the worse he got and the worse he got the worse i got. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!! long story short...we decided to free eachother. With the stress and saddness of the break up....having to find and make myslef a new home....................I am down right tired and drained, sad..........i miss my man, I miss our dog....i miss Izzy...and to make things just a little worse, my dad who also has MS is now bed ridden, cathed, barely holding a conversation, and sleeps all day. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!! I need some peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry to bich....but always thankful I have a place where I can :-*
koda1
koda1
That is such a sad story OMG ilotusflower are you sure you have both done the right thing bloodyhell ....I am a bit of a romantic at heart but happiness ......is sooooooooooooooooooo important your Dad will need you and maybe...... he will keep you strong...Oh I know its easy for me to say you are in this ...but it is sad that you are so sad......
sorry I am sure that has only confused you.....
Byeeeeeeeeeeee
good luck
lchoppel
lchoppel
It is amazing that you have realized that the relationship with this man is toxic to your and his health. It is more amazing that you both decided to break away from each other to protect your health. This is a good thing that you did, even though your heart is aching. You know what they say about time healing all wounds. Maybe time will heal your wound too.

It is rough that your dad has MS and so badly. I hope you can help him without hurting your own health. It sounds like you need to look into some health services for your dad though. With your MS, you cannot be a nurse to him and totally take care of yourself. Please contact the MS Society in your area and see what services are available to your father.

I also hope that you have found a nice home for yourself and are taking care of your health. I'm so sorry all of this has happened to you. Feel free to ran.-on here on DS, that's what your friends are for. Good Luck.