O.o
How does your alter feel about it?

well, i mean, mentally you are seperate people, so while it is a unique situation, I wouldn't feel bad about it. it was something you and an alter chose to do together

No it is not possible honey.
when you make or experience alters it is bcause either you wanna escape from reality or you simply like the idea of being with an alter / roleplay.
So having sex with an alter is simply like having sex with yourself/mastrubate.
I can help you with this issue , to seperate your alters because they are just not real.
I dealt with this problem , with my alts my self and I feel just fine.
Answer my message if you interested for a treatment with no medicines , just to get ride of that hallucinations

just curious lucielj, are you a multiple or a theripist or something? cause while I have no clue what to call it........I certainly would not categorize it as masterbating. the mind can do powerfull things and if alters are separate in every other way, then they are seperate sexually as well.

I'ts kind of an odd topic....but i wish you the best sorting it out

This is a very interesting situation. I wish I could offer some words of advice, but I am stumped to say the least. I do wish you the best of luck though. I am sorry I couldn't be of more assistance.

My guys say that it is possible, that they could have sex with me if they were interested and so was I, but that it isn't a good idea to have sex with them. It depends largely on your relationship with them, and with other people. We all agree that having a steady, sexual and romantic relationship with your alter is not a good idea, but I'm sure that the occasional fling is okay.

i kinda almost want to consider it rape..... he pressured me into it.. :/

Unfortunately it is possible. My introject personalities have sexually abused my child alters and I have been left with the ramifications of having to heal the abuse when the body was aged between 2-11 as well as the abuse that has occurred internally. I wish i had some answers for you TBR. I guess one question that someone has already posed is whether it was concensual or not. What were the 2 of you trying to get out of the experience? You said you are left with feeling like you raped the person, what does the personality feel like since it occurred? You have a good t Ild be talking to her about this experience as well.

I feel fine about it. What happened happened and i had a good time, i don't know that she did and she can call it whatever in fuck she wants. And yeah I admit i do have feelings for her but i know I did not consider her feelings in it. But whatever, I don't really care how she feels about it. -Alex

The introject of our father constantly abuses us. He comes out, and he abuses us, and it feels very much like the abuse is still happening. Yes, on a technical level, it is masturbation, but when it's a host body and an alter making the choices, it's still abuse. It's self-abuse.

i have a transgender male side and I have thought to myself I was abusing the female alter ,, our mind is mysterious I know I am one person with many fragmented ego states, Deep too deep,, therapist deep dont have an answer ,, but I have a male who hates the female stuff all of it, and can be quite abusive and sabatage alot of progress friends etc,,,, He needs to feel sexual with a woman the sad part is He acts just like the brothers who abused me ,,,, it is still my body my mind and my parts,,,, we are working on loving Eric and not judging him,,,,, jgot news for him my female is lesbian so he is screwed LOL

Well its good to know you feel good about it Alex we just need to help B realize that what happened wasnt abuse. By your response Alex it seems like you were the one who initiated the experience Alex and Im wondering whether you have seen others have sex with you or others by force and therefore you believed it was quite acceptable to do the same. The only concern in you not having any regard for B is that ultimately someone will lock you up if you dont know how to behave and that would be good for noone. I think B is a little confused atm so maybe you need to have a chat with her rather than just not caring so maybe you could come to an agreement with her. Ultimately by finding a solution that works for everyone is the best solution.

I haven't been here for a while, but I hope it's ok that I jump in. It seems to me that sex between alters indicates a certain level of co-consciousness, and that might be considered progress of a sort. It could be that the alters involved will disclose somethng that can be worked out and healed as a result of this new development. There are alt's in our system which have had this go on too. You are not alone.
Pat.

implimentation of self. sexual cohesivness.. pleasure... sexual seeking... it is our nature period. no matter conflicts taht emerge we are into our own endearing selves to satisfy. time is only always passing until we truly construct our position to our initial depth of coherency... breeding. reproducing. not being the burning bush. imagery of yourself recreated is a notion to provide .. whether concious or subconcious equation we received by ourselves ourself permtited... what you experience in sex to yourself as your portray it... can be a projection or an alteration of performance to another that has struck you. binded by conflicting issues that form or reform values or systems of yourself we can lose sight of the growth to the right of it out side us that is there ot be had.


as you can idolize a care taker or a role model or hope to acheive beyond our own boundaries... you yourself have placed yourself to a parameter that is to be admired... criticized or .....taken to each their own how you are to engage your style beyond 'self disfunction'...

the question is to analayize your desire and placement in life... and acheive... prospect. wonder on through engagement and ascertain to distinction.

receive from yourself through another and make form a life apart yourself and them... gain.
equually a life preservation. we are mortal. whoever else is inside you. you die together alll the same.

what do you bring to stay....... it is a memory or a life.