Multiple Personalities Support Group

Dissociative identity disorder is a diagnosis described as the existence in an individual of two or more distinct identities or personalities, each with its own pattern of perceiving and interacting with the environment. At least two of these personalities are considered to routinely take control of the individual's behavior, and there is also some associated memory loss,...

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stupid alter

hopeless25
hopeless25
My alter is freakin stupid... she stutters and is starting to make me because she all the sudden coming to light she love green olives and we have been eating them like crazy smh...Go back from where you came...we dont want u

-teekie
deleted_user
deleted_user
One of the greatest jobs we have as multiples is to get our parts to stop blaming and hurting each other, and get them to function like a healthy family. I struggle with this a lot, my adults parts are always at war with my little parts, they hate each other--and i need to work on this with therapy.
hopeless25
hopeless25
Your right its just hard :-/ I don't want them
starfish
starfish
I know that feeling...very aggrivating when you have such a severe conflict. I have made very little progress that I know of in that area, but we have learned how to be somewhat civil to each other. If you can, perhaps it would be helpful to ask (nicely, of course) the little green olive eater what things you and the others who don't want her, bug her. It might help you see that she has those kinds of feelings, too. Remember, even though she's a completely seperate part, she's still a part of you. And if and when you reject her (or anyone else) you are also rejecting yourself. I think that is part of the reason why there's so much tumoltuous conflict inside of ourselves.
stephanietram
stephanietram
it seems like a contradiction, but the best path to becoming a unified person is found in accepting each alter and helping them overcome the things that caused them.
ImpulsiveREtardednes
ImpulsiveREtardednes
Essentially, they're all a part of you. So, whatever part they play in your life...you need to find the cause root to their existence. Cause they came to play as some part of you.

Perhaps, this alter is trying to show you that things can be difficult to express. There are things that she knows she likes for sure...and knows how to SHOW you she likes them. But expression is harder for her to do because of her stutter.

There are always different sides to the story. But accepting them as a part of yourself ultimately is key.
moonface21
moonface21
Your alter is not stupid.She has been through terrible things and suffers from PTSD.This is why she stutters.
It is hard to accept and recognize these parts in us.They all have their purpose and something to teach us.
If you saw her, alone in the street, would you not help her?When I can't stand something in me anymore, I think what I would do with another person who suffers;Would I reject them?
I hated my 15 year old part because she was wild, full of teen ager complex and feeling dirty from the abuse.I did not want her.I had buried her deep down.Accepting her in fact has brought a lot of joy and energy back in my life.
hopeless25
hopeless25
Thanks you all I'm trying to accept and listen but right now everyone is mad a everyone it's driving me insane