I have told you all about my friend with DID, we were very close. Anyway, he has had to go back to hospital to work on some issues. He has a lot of stress in his life at the moment and I understand that, but I'm so afraid for him. He seems so distant, I feel like I've lost him. We used to be really open with each other. He used to be very caring, very giving and understanding, I could tell him anything and everything and he could do the same with me. Lately though, it's as if he went back inside somewhere and he became very distant. I said to him just before he went to hospital that I felt as if he had been taken over by an alien, he was extremely different, it's like he just turned cold and uncaring and even hurt me emotionaly a few times. I'm still trying to be there for my friend, but I don't know how to. If I give him space, I feel guilty that I'm not being supportive enough as he may need a friend. If I ring him, we don't have much to say to each other, we used to be able to talk for hours. He just seems so empty now. I guess I just feel a bit deserted, but I know it isn't his fault. His T did find another alter who was the 'alien' and they are dealing with it. I'm just scared my friend will never come back, I guess I'm being selfish but I really miss him. It just feels like I don't know him anymore. How can I help him?
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