Multiple Personalities Support Group
Dissociative identity disorder is a diagnosis described as the existence in an individual of two or more distinct identities or personalities, each with its own pattern of perceiving and interacting with the environment. At least two of these personalities are considered to routinely take control of the individual's behavior, and there is also some associated memory loss,...
the unpleasantness that happened in this group a few days ago should not have been started in the thread i began for all of you. As Tyzz pointed out in one of the two threads someone asked DS to disappear, such things happen here from time to time when you get angry alters and protector alters active online. People get triggered and react how they are pogrammed to react. Usually it blows over if given a little time to settle and no one else gets involved to take sides. Cos that's how bullying gets started.
but it is a very good example why all you Littles should have your own group away from the Bigs. Someone suggested you could all Message each other, and this is a good idea. It's a safe way to interact with other Littles. But it can only work if you already know the other Little. And it's only ever you and one other Little. It doesn't address the issue of many of you having of having to stay hidden and not being able to come out and socialise in groups like the Bigs can, free from ridicule or harrassment or being made to feel stupid (which you are NOT - you're just Little is all). Which i think is a sad thing, it doesn't seem fair to me at all.
so, again, i'm really sorry this happened in a thread that was supposed to be for all of you. I really hope it didn't make you feel unsafe or afraid to be here on DS. So please think about asking your Bigs if you can go make some new friends in the DID Littles Group. It's safe, in all the time i've been a member i've never ever once seen any angry unpleasantness there like happens here from time to time. I've only ever seen Littles enjoying each others company. And your Bigs can always pop in occasionally just to check for themselves. I hope you are all allowed to give it a try
kevin
but it is a very good example why all you Littles should have your own group away from the Bigs. Someone suggested you could all Message each other, and this is a good idea. It's a safe way to interact with other Littles. But it can only work if you already know the other Little. And it's only ever you and one other Little. It doesn't address the issue of many of you having of having to stay hidden and not being able to come out and socialise in groups like the Bigs can, free from ridicule or harrassment or being made to feel stupid (which you are NOT - you're just Little is all). Which i think is a sad thing, it doesn't seem fair to me at all.
so, again, i'm really sorry this happened in a thread that was supposed to be for all of you. I really hope it didn't make you feel unsafe or afraid to be here on DS. So please think about asking your Bigs if you can go make some new friends in the DID Littles Group. It's safe, in all the time i've been a member i've never ever once seen any angry unpleasantness there like happens here from time to time. I've only ever seen Littles enjoying each others company. And your Bigs can always pop in occasionally just to check for themselves. I hope you are all allowed to give it a try
kevin
that is a sadness about the other site closing down, it sounds really good. And i agree, the DID Littles Group could again be the wonderful place for Littles that it has in the past. If only Littles can and do go there. Perhaps your Littles could help that happen by spending some time there? Precious97 and Reed31 both have Littles that have been there looking to make new friends. Yours could go say Hi maybe?