(((theblackrose)))

We are so sorry guys. We know this is the last thing you wanted to happen, and we are so sorry that it has. We can only imagine how much pain this must be causing you all.

Please let us know if we can do anything to help. And please try and do something soothing for you guys. You need and deserve it.

In time, when you're ready, you can think about doing something to remember your baby. Just because you didn't give birth, doesn't mean you shouldn't get to grieve the loss.

We're here for you TBR.

So sorry! I can not imagine the sorrow you feel. :(

This is my second dead child... I did something. It's my fault she's dead. I should be dead, not her. Not my baby.... She should have lived.... She deserved so much better than me. I'm a terrible mother.... IM A TERRIBLE MOTHER BECAUSE ALL MY BABIES ARE DEAD!! *tears*

I'm a murderer...

It's just a stupid baby; nothing to fret over. -Bones

Shut up Bones!

You are not a murderer!!!! It's painful. But I know you'll get through this. I do hope that when you're ready to accept that...you will mourn the loss without blaming yourself. It is not your fault.

Take care of yourself my dear.

It is my fault....it's in my blood to have miscarriages.... It's apart of me... My body has killed 2 innocent helpless children... I hate myself so much! I want to just Curl up into a ball and die!

It's NOT your fault. You are NOT a murderer. Miscarriage is such a devastating thing to happen, but it is no one's fault. Sometimes these things happen. No one is to blame. You are not to blame. You are not a murderer. And you are not a bad mother. I'm sure Kevin would agree with us on that, too.
We're so sorry TBR.

Mommy.... Mommy don't be sad mommy... Angel loves you. I love you mommy. Kevin and Angel love you. Angel is with me. We love you mommy so much. Angel can be an alter in you to so we can be together as a family. Please mommy... Don't cry. -Kevin

It's not your fault if it's in your genes. My grandma had several miscarriages before actually beginning to have children. Heck, her doctor told her she'd NEVER have kids. Then she wound up with 13!!!!!

So, just because 2 haven't made it so far...doesn't mean that none ever will. My roommate's cousin has a horrible time with miscarriages too...but she's managed to pop out 2 so far...and is having difficulty with her 3rd. But we're hoping that it works out.

I'm sorry for your loss...but it's not your fault. You can't blame yourself for what's in your genetic make up. You didn't choose that to begin with.

Your grief is real. The blame you are placing on yourself cannot be denied. I am not saying it is your fault, but if you never deal with the way you feel that makes you blame yourself, then you will never be able to get past the guilt and shame parts of you feel. I hope you will be able to work through this. Still, I hope you will be able to find a place of safety as well.

aaah shit tbr

sometimes life just fucking sucks, badly.
You must hurt so very badly right now, but it is not your fault. Is there a school counsellor you can see for support in your grieving?

((((Huggles))))
Sweetheart, I know you really wanted this baby, and I'm really sad you miscarried.
I think there will be others, and that you'll find a way to carry to term.
Meanwhile I'm worried about you.
((((GIANT HUG)))))