Multiple Personalities Support Group

Dissociative identity disorder is a diagnosis described as the existence in an individual of two or more distinct identities or personalities, each with its own pattern of perceiving and interacting with the environment. At least two of these personalities are considered to routinely take control of the individual's behavior, and there is also some associated memory loss,...

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hopeless25 08/08/2012

Does anyone else ever feel like there alter is out to get you or like its trying to prove a point to me...? I know it sounds weird but that's how i feel.. Is there ever a certain time of day one of your alter loves to come out ?

stephanietram 08/08/2012

my littles love to come out after 11pm. Sometimes they will keep the body up until 3 a.m.

We truly believed 2 of our alt's were out to get us. What we discovered is something you said; they were trying to prove a point. Sometimes their point was really on target, and sometimes their point was based on some faulty assumptions that once corrected, went away and things got much more peaceful inside and out.

Hang in there Hope

hopeless25 08/09/2012

Thank you, glad to see i'm not alone :) I swear she's out to get me lol she's evil.. i think she wants to prove that she's here and wants to be heard ..

deleted_user 08/09/2012

One of my alters is very angry and at one point was violent towards me for telling the T our secrets. I still have to work through this issue with my T about that.

hopeless25 08/09/2012

Yeah once the cat was out the bag and i told my T about my others every time i see her my alter comes out and gives her the meanies attitude its kinda like a defense

deleted_user 08/10/2012

For you other who comes out at therapy, maybe she's scared about you sharing things, traumas and such. In the beginning it can be real scary for them, they've been hiding just to keep these secrets safe. Sometimes they usually are very protective. I found that talking to them (even when I wasn't sure they could hear) and thanking them for protecting you and letting them know it's safer now then it was when they came. Before I could talk with any of my others, my therapist told me to talk to them as though they are in coma because maybe they can hear you even though you don't see any signs of it. Hope this helps
Love and Hugs
Carla

deleted_user 08/10/2012

BTW hopeless You are definitely without hope. Just being on this board should give you hope. You sound like a real smart girl and I have faith that you will make it through all this. We have all been through alot and we are here for each other. Have a great Day!
Love and Hugs
Carla

deleted_user 08/10/2012

ya mii alters like to come out when mii bf is around, some times i rotare between all 5 in one houre. you see mii bf is vary kind to them and they are absolutly in love with him as i am.....also they have needs too and he has no problum helping them. he even asks for them sometimes just to see haw they r

hopeless25 08/10/2012

Thank you Caria, you know your right i have found a lot of hope since i've been here. I think i'm going to try and do like you said talk to them and see if they will trust her and open up.

hopeless25 08/10/2012

angela i hope i can find a relationship with someone understanding

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