Motherless Daughters Community Group
For any daughter who has lost their mother, whether through Death (if it's been one day ago or 40 years ago) or Abandonment, (i.e.-drug abuse, mental illness, physical or emotional abuse, etc.) and is working through the grief process. This group provides unconditional support and understanding from women who have also lost their Moms and who truly care.
It was 3 months ago yesterday that my mom died. I still can't believe it, I didn't even know there was an election yesterday till I turned on the tv that evening. I'm just trying to deal with things and I feel that I don't know how much more I can take. I called the credit card company that mailed a new card to her that was due to expire this month. I can't believe that companies are so money hungry they don't check to see if someone is living before sending them a card, her S.S. number is listed as dead - hello. I'm afraid my landlord might make me move, my mother was renting the place on a month by month basis and he came in to inspect the property while I was out. We lived there for 30 yrs and only had a new waterheater put in a few years ago. I have no other relatives in the city I'm living in and my job is going slow. I'm scared again and feel unsafe in the apartment.
I can understand what you are saying. As I mentioned in a previous post, the "experts" say that the 3 month mark is typically hard. I dont know why, I think it may take that long to get over the passing, the funeral, the initial things that need to be done etc and then here we are standing still in a world that is spinning at a million miles an hour around us. Our friends think we are "over it", and dont call as much and everyone just seems to be getting on with their normal lives.
However nothing will ever be normal for us again after losing our mums.
I hope things go ok with your landlord.
Love to you,
Sam
xoxox