Motherless Daughters Community Group
For any daughter who has lost their mother, whether through Death (if it's been one day ago or 40 years ago) or Abandonment, (i.e.-drug abuse, mental illness, physical or emotional abuse, etc.) and is working through the grief process. This group provides unconditional support and understanding from women who have also lost their Moms and who truly care.
Hi Everyone,
Just wondering if anyone has experienced anything they have considered to be a sign from their Mum.
It's coming up to 5 months since my Mum died, and I have had some incredible coincidences happen. I know I desperately want to believe Mum is still with me and am obviously looking for signs, but these coincidences are astonishing. My daughter was born 2 weeks to the day after Mum died as well and the whole night in hospital and the next morning machines and lights would stop and start working.....the midwifes were baffled, I was sure Mum was there somehow, I desperately needed her to get through the labour. For the first 2 weeks after Mum died when I went in to check on my 3 year old before bed, his room was icy cold, so much colder than any other room in the house. A few weeks ago I went to a bakery that Mum discovered and went to often, they had a signature sponge cake that appeared at every family occasion and get together. While I was there the song that I chose to play to a DVD of Mums life at her funeral came on completely randomly. And it was Bobby McGee by Janis Joplin - not one you here every day. There have been a few other astonishing coincidences, and they seem to occur when I have reached my lowest point and am feeling desperate.....Do you think this is a coping mechanism, or something more?? Logically it makes no sense I know, but intuitively I really feel like Mum is still very much with me and my family....
Just wondering if anyone else had any experiences like this, and what your thoughts are?
Just wondering if anyone has experienced anything they have considered to be a sign from their Mum.
It's coming up to 5 months since my Mum died, and I have had some incredible coincidences happen. I know I desperately want to believe Mum is still with me and am obviously looking for signs, but these coincidences are astonishing. My daughter was born 2 weeks to the day after Mum died as well and the whole night in hospital and the next morning machines and lights would stop and start working.....the midwifes were baffled, I was sure Mum was there somehow, I desperately needed her to get through the labour. For the first 2 weeks after Mum died when I went in to check on my 3 year old before bed, his room was icy cold, so much colder than any other room in the house. A few weeks ago I went to a bakery that Mum discovered and went to often, they had a signature sponge cake that appeared at every family occasion and get together. While I was there the song that I chose to play to a DVD of Mums life at her funeral came on completely randomly. And it was Bobby McGee by Janis Joplin - not one you here every day. There have been a few other astonishing coincidences, and they seem to occur when I have reached my lowest point and am feeling desperate.....Do you think this is a coping mechanism, or something more?? Logically it makes no sense I know, but intuitively I really feel like Mum is still very much with me and my family....
Just wondering if anyone else had any experiences like this, and what your thoughts are?
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hi, im betting that she is ill tll u why.. my moher died 1 yr tomm ok in may i had a dream a real dream of me her n my sisters, we spoke i said i qit smoking she was happy,laughing n sid she new, ( she begged me b4 her death to qui) she quit 15 yrs ago, then she said u are very sick,( i was sick,) had a reli bad cold i couldnt shake, well im stage 4 copd also. let me tell u, that same night i ended up in the e/r and was in there 3 wks. the rm number was 3023, our old address. :))) they were gona interbate me i was like dying, i pray to my mom, within 4 hrs i was changing for the better,:))) thats one story my other was in june my sons graduation from jhs, she waited for that for so long.that daymy sons shirt ,botton fell off log story short couldnt find my bag with pins n neddles. so hubby put a bobbie pin in it, u no the wrist of the shirt to hold it together, i was so upset yeling and all,lmao ok we got there, im in my seat my son passes us by and whatda u think is on the floor between my feet n hubbys, a freakin safty pin. i swear that pin was a sign to let us no shes there. so ur not alone, moms do come around, and in my dream, she said ill never leave my girls. while my kid sister sat there in the dream as if she seen a ghost. i was happy i dreamed that dream, i no shes ok then. so yea, ur not nuts haha u got signs, enjoy them :)))
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