Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Hey my names steph I'm 20. I have three beautiful children 1 girl and 2 boys. Aged 3 1 and 3 months.
My story is a little complicated and I'm really struggling with how to feel and what to think?!
I had the injection 3 weeks ago prior to that me and my partner were using condoms. I thort we had been really safe up until 2 days ago. I started to get cramping and stomach ache about a week before then I started to bleed lightly earlier in the day(3ish)..gradualy getting a bit heavier I went to bed and I felt this little pop.(About 5ish)
I went to the toilet and when I wiped there was this whitish looking tadpole with a fish like tail attatched to a dark red looking blood clot?!
It was about an inch big! I started to bleed a bit heavier. It was late at night I cried myself back to sleep! I can't stop thinking about it. My partner bought me a card in which we both wrote something for the baby..but where I didn't know I was pregnant and I thort we had been safe I don't feel like I can greive. As I don't want to grieve for something that wasn't.
Please someone help?? I need peace of mind. :) and if it was a baby to grieve. (It really looked like it, me and my partner googled it)
Steph xxx
My story is a little complicated and I'm really struggling with how to feel and what to think?!
I had the injection 3 weeks ago prior to that me and my partner were using condoms. I thort we had been really safe up until 2 days ago. I started to get cramping and stomach ache about a week before then I started to bleed lightly earlier in the day(3ish)..gradualy getting a bit heavier I went to bed and I felt this little pop.(About 5ish)
I went to the toilet and when I wiped there was this whitish looking tadpole with a fish like tail attatched to a dark red looking blood clot?!
It was about an inch big! I started to bleed a bit heavier. It was late at night I cried myself back to sleep! I can't stop thinking about it. My partner bought me a card in which we both wrote something for the baby..but where I didn't know I was pregnant and I thort we had been safe I don't feel like I can greive. As I don't want to grieve for something that wasn't.
Please someone help?? I need peace of mind. :) and if it was a baby to grieve. (It really looked like it, me and my partner googled it)
Steph xxx
Why dont you go and see a doctor and explain to him what you saw and felt. Then he can also take blood samples to see what your HCG levels are as if this happened recently, you should still have the hormone in your body.
Im sorry your going through this, its never easy.
Let us know if you went to the doc and how it went.x