Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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LostHimOn081611 03/24/2012

Well it has been 7 1/2 months since we lost our son and everyday is still a struggle for me. I am good at looking happy and acting like nothing's wrong but there is still nights I cry myself to sleep. Anyway, I am at Walmart right now and somehow I ended up in the baby section and now I'm balling my eyes out. Usually I can walk right on by it but today I just couldn't do it. The I remembered this site, and you all and am so thankful I had an outlet. This site is what gets me through some days when nothing else does. I just wanted to say thanks ladies : )

deleted_user 03/24/2012

i know exactly how you feel. I lost my daughter Hope 08.22.10 and my son Gabrial 02.28.12. and i work at walmart. I have been off work since the loss of my son but when ever i work and i see people with a little girl around Hope's age it upsets me to the point im choking back tears. also i know going back to work in a couple days and seeing baby clothes and babies are going to kill me. my family and friends have babies and i cant stand to be near them or go to the baby isle to buy something for them. its just too upsetting.

deleted_user 03/24/2012

i guess i have no advice to offer just letting you know that your not alone hope that helps at least a little!

deleted_user 03/25/2012

I know what you mean. Sometimes I feel like crying when I see babies , baby things, or pregnant ladies. Other times I feel like getting closer to coo over them and dream and hope that I well get pregnant again( not to mention have the baby).

Take care of yourself , and know that we are here to help you heal. Big Hug!!

deleted_user 03/26/2012

I feel the same way. I can walk by the baby stuff sometimes and at other times, I can't help but to cry when I see the pretty little summer clothes or the cute little winter coats and wonder how cute my baby would've been in one of those :(

It's ok to let it out, just know that. I let it out whenever it needs to come out... even at the store. I think we all go through that so you're not alone.

deleted_user 03/26/2012

I hear you!! I was shopping online yesterday for my sister-in-law's baby shower.. and I got so jealous and upset!!

Hang in there!

Blessings to you!

blessed34 03/26/2012

I try and stay away from the baby section because I get floods of tears. It took me a while to open my closet and see my daughter's clothes. People have tried to ask me to hold their baby. I just can't do it.

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