My fiance and I have been talking about what would happen if I got pregnant again after our wedding next year, and how we would handle it and when we would tell people etc.. However, I've been secretly thinking about the fact that I'm just not sure if I ever want to be pregnant again. I know that lots of women feel this way after a loss, but its been several months since my loss in march, and I'm really considering that maybe having a baby the "normal" way isnt best for me. I've always wanted to adopt and after my first loss I contemplated just adopting and not trying again. I'm thinking maybe my second loss is a sign that adopting is the way I was meant to be a mommy. I've researched several forms of perminant birth control and called places asking about them. My only concerns are that alot of them are invasive and the fact that alot of doctors have said that because I'm only 23 most physicians wont tie my tubes or do any other form of perminant birth control. However, I feel like its my body and my decision, so i'm not sure if a doctor could really deny me any birth control procedure. I was just wondering what others thought about adoption and tubiligations.
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