Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
There is a girl on here, age 14, who is going around saying she and her boyfriend are GOING to have a baby and none of our opinions matter... Yet she posted and asked if she is doing the right thing, many people told her she should wait, she flipped and told everybody they don't know anything about her so they're all wrong. She's throwing this baby thing around like it's a fucking high school game. How DARE somebody act like that?! When all of us lost our children, a child herself is wanting to put a baby through hell. I get it, mistakes happen and some girls get pregnant young, but to CHOOSE to put a baby through that? Yeah, I got pregnant at 13, and I lost my baby. But I didn't choose any of that. I didn't even WANT to have sex. It took me years to be with somebody again. It just angers me so much that she can go around playing with a situation like that. Her body isn't even ready for a child. It just makes me think so much of how I almost did have a child, it hurts so badly to think about it. and it hurts even more that someone can play around with such a thing.
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Obviously your talking about me and you just need to chill ok.. me and my boyfriend talked about it last night and FYI i DID listen to yall ok.. im not doing it!
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I get where your coming from but I think it was kinda wrong to throw it out there. I know you didn't say her name and that she did put it on a discussion board but all your doing is creating more drama. People do things in life that we don't always agree with voice your opinions then leave it alone. I get your hurt I get you and others lost your kids but come on they may be young and no having a kid that you isn't a very good idea, but breathing down her back isn't gonna help or make her change her mind. You don't know her or what's she's been through nor do I but who are we too tell her what to want or how to feel... She's gonna doing what she wants your just dragging this whole situation out
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I think if people put it out there you have the right to voice your opinion...,,,you did nothing wrong....and only said what other people were feeling....and it only creates drama if someone takes your opinion and runs with it.........and thank goodness about the girl who posted that her and her boyfriend decided to take everyones advice and to hold off on the baby...good choice!!!
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most of these young girls now think they want babies... but are they ready to be up and down every 2-3 hours... will they be ready for diapers bottles feedings and when a baby is sick or choking will they know what to do... i have seen this in my family they got pregnant a a young age and next thing you know their mama is raising the baby they so badly wanted.. i have had cousins get pregnant and miscarry and one got pregnant at 14 it scared the hell out of her and she had a abortion cause she knew she wasnt ready... hunny your 14 your in what high school... you still have you whole life a head of you.. there will be times you want to go out with your friends and brining a screaming baby along is no fun... be a kid first and worry about having a baby when your older... i got pregnant at 22 and wasnt ready and miscarried my son... your body inside is not ready for a baby... give it time be a teenager first go out enjoy friends and life!
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most of these young girls now think they want babies... but are they ready to be up and down every 2-3 hours... will they be ready for diapers bottles feedings and when a baby is sick or choking will they know what to do... i have seen this in my family they got pregnant a a young age and next thing you know their mama is raising the baby they so badly wanted.. i have had cousins get pregnant and miscarry and one got pregnant at 14 it scared the hell out of her and she had a abortion cause she knew she wasnt ready... hunny your 14 your in what high school... you still have you whole life a head of you.. there will be times you want to go out with your friends and brining a screaming baby along is no fun... be a kid first and worry about having a baby when your older... i got pregnant at 22 and wasnt ready and miscarried my son... your body inside is not ready for a baby... give it time be a teenager first go out enjoy friends and life!
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most of these young girls now think they want babies... but are they ready to be up and down every 2-3 hours... will they be ready for diapers bottles feedings and when a baby is sick or choking will they know what to do... i have seen this in my family they got pregnant a a young age and next thing you know their mama is raising the baby they so badly wanted.. i have had cousins get pregnant and miscarry and one got pregnant at 14 it scared the hell out of her and she had a abortion cause she knew she wasnt ready... hunny your 14 your in what high school... you still have you whole life a head of you.. there will be times you want to go out with your friends and brining a screaming baby along is no fun... be a kid first and worry about having a baby when your older... i got pregnant at 22 and wasnt ready and miscarried my son... your body inside is not ready for a baby... give it time be a teenager first go out enjoy friends and life!
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most of these young girls now think they want babies... but are they ready to be up and down every 2-3 hours... will they be ready for diapers bottles feedings and when a baby is sick or choking will they know what to do... i have seen this in my family they got pregnant a a young age and next thing you know their mama is raising the baby they so badly wanted.. i have had cousins get pregnant and miscarry and one got pregnant at 14 it scared the hell out of her and she had a abortion cause she knew she wasnt ready... hunny your 14 your in what high school... you still have you whole life a head of you.. there will be times you want to go out with your friends and brining a screaming baby along is no fun... be a kid first and worry about having a baby when your older... i got pregnant at 22 and wasnt ready and miscarried my son... your body inside is not ready for a baby... give it time be a teenager first go out enjoy friends and life!
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most of these young girls now think they want babies... but are they ready to be up and down every 2-3 hours... will they be ready for diapers bottles feedings and when a baby is sick or choking will they know what to do... i have seen this in my family they got pregnant a a young age and next thing you know their mama is raising the baby they so badly wanted.. i have had cousins get pregnant and miscarry and one got pregnant at 14 it scared the hell out of her and she had a abortion cause she knew she wasnt ready... hunny your 14 your in what high school... you still have you whole life a head of you.. there will be times you want to go out with your friends and brining a screaming baby along is no fun... be a kid first and worry about having a baby when your older... i got pregnant at 22 and wasnt ready and miscarried my son... your body inside is not ready for a baby... give it time be a teenager first go out enjoy friends and life!
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