Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Since the M/C I found that more and more people are telling me about their relatives or close friends are pregnant or just had kids...I feel like they are waiting for my reaction to the news...I am so sick of trying to say the right thing that I am going to explode the next time I hear about someone that I do not know just had a baby.....
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I hear you. I feel like a science experiment and everyone is standing back waiting to see what's going to happen when I see a baby or hear of someone being pregnant. Yes and to this point I put on the fake smile and then quickly exit. I wonder what would happen if we just lost it and went nuts right there and then.
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LOL Jacks! What a sight that would be! The upside is that no one would feel safe bringing their babies around us anymore... that will save us the trouble of avoiding them.
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i know exactly what ur saying i still go through it and its been almost a year
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Yes OMG they give you that LOOK. Ya know the look!!!
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Wow. I totally know what you are talking about. The worst is when people give you the news and then say...so, when are you having another one or you should have 5 more (if you already have one or two)...even if they know you have had miscarriages. This happens to me all the time. DRIVES ME INSANE!!!
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I think people are so mean when it comes to the loss of a baby. I had the guy that made the arrangements for my Hannah show me a picture of his new born grand-daughter born the same day as Hannah. This is what you do, you tell them that you hope everthing goes well for them and let them know that you lost your beautiful baby. They will feel so stupid. Then maybe next time they will think about what they say.
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