Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Well, just got done at the doctor and u/s showed everything did pass. So, I am now officially empty inside..... literally. :-( Didn't get any answers I wanted. She wants me to wait about 6 weeks to do any of the tests. That may or may not even give me answers. Also recomends that I wait about 6 months to let my body rest and get healthy before trying again. So now I am back at square one! Get to see all kinds of people give birth in the next month...... dreading that! I want to be happy for them but its just so hard!!! Is that wrong? Talked to hubby about going somewhere around the 2nd (when I would have been due the first time) so hope that helps! Its so hard realizing that I should be pregnant right now!! But I'm not! Such a cruel joke this is!! I am gonna start working on me and see ehat happens down the road! Thanks for all the support! !
I feel ya on feeling empty and dealing with other who aren't. I find it's so much easier when I know they've struggled too. I have a local support group that meets face to face, and there's a girl in it who is now pregnant with her second, but she lost her first at right about this stage(20 weeks). It's not hard for me to see her or hear about this pregnancy.
On the other hand, there's a girl in my office who's about to have her son any day now, and I can't even look at her. I come up with strategies to avoid seeing her. I guess when you know they haven't had any problems to deal with you feel like they don't know what they've got. Maybe I recognize that I didn't know what I had....at least didn't know how it could be taken away ...
Be strong and in a few months you'll feel ready!