Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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nickerd00dlex0 07/18/2012

My aunt that I live with is in labor and just left for the hospital. I knew living here with a new baby was going to be hard...but I am already crying and having a small panic attack. They JUST left a few minutes ago and I'm already freaking out. I just keep thinking about Kayden.

I feel like there is something wrong with me. I shouldn't be this distraught when the baby isn't even bored and I'm not even around it yet.

I don't know what to do...

deleted_user 07/18/2012

It okay to freak out. It's really hard to watch other people have their babies. I freaked out the other day when my room mate found out she was having a baby girl and the day before my brother told me that he and his girlfriend are now expecting. Just know it will get easier eventually, we can't stop people from having babies and one day we will have our own. It may be hard to see the baby at first but knowing that it's your little cousin might make it easier.

deleted_user 07/19/2012

Its all normal to freak out and you should let you feelings out. My sister in law is due to have her baby any day now and they were so considerate when they told me that they are having a baby (two days after my d&c). I am dreading it and have been avoiding the situation completely but its happening.

It will get easier and you will have good and bad days. thinking of you.
x

deleted_user 07/19/2012

Watching other people have what you where so close to having is hard. I am the only one in my group of friends not pregnant. I would have been due in a week.. Slowly I have begun to learn to smile through the pain. There is a reason and you may not know it not but one day you will and it will be worth it.

deleted_user 07/19/2012

I can totally relate. My boss is pregnant we were due about a month apart. I had a miscarriage in Aoril of this year and she is now about 7 months pregnant. After my D & C I came in to work a week later jumped right into things and as time has passed now I am falling apart inside. The sock and numbness is going away I wish her all the best and I am super happy for her but I am done with hearing about what crib she likes and how the room is going to get decorated and what hurts today because the belly is going. Those are the stories of everyday when I go to work.
I feel better as i right this I am just letting all my feelings out something I have not done fully since I lost by little angel.
Everyday is a battle, I am thankful to have a job but dread the enviornment some days.

nickerd00dlex0 07/20/2012

Thanks for the replies. You girls are wonderful. Baby William comes home today and I am feeling much better and more excited. I know it'll be hard, but I move out in a few weeks and I'm excited to meet my new cousin.

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