Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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lis25
lis25
Its has been over two weeks since i lost my angel Macy and im finally ready to talk to someone about how i feel the problems is i have no 1 2 talk to. My partner doent really seem to understand and always just says wwe can try agin soon n i dont want to hear that i just want him to listen to me. My friends r gr8 but have their own things going on atm. And im not very close to my own mother.
There has been plenty of suggestions that i see i counsellor but i need to talk to someone i know. I wish my partner were on the same page but we both know we r not. I feel so alone
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am so sorry for your loss! Luckly my bf was comforting, but my friends tried to act like it didn't even happen. Maybe try writing your feelings down and giving them to him... tell him that you dont want to hear that we can try again now and that your still greaving the loss of your baby. This was his baby too... maybe he is greiving in a different way. My bf just slept and slept and I felt like he was ignoring it, but I realized that that was they way he was dealing with it. good luck and you are in my thoughts
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm so sorry for your loss lis. I am sorry that you are unable to talk to anyone. Do you know anyone who has had a miscarriage? They seem to understand most.

You should keep open communication with your partner, but understand he is grieving in his own way. My husband grieved for a few days and then was OK. He was sad about the loss, but he wasn't carrying the baby.

*HUGS*
lis25
lis25
No i dont know antone else that has gone through this only you ladies on here. I understand that this was his baby to and he was upset 4 a few days but has seemed to of moved on and has mentioned i need to as well. Easier said than done. I know he is struggling with my depression and finding it hard to deal with me.