First i am sorry for your loss....and that has to be very hard at work with everyone getting pregnant around you...this will pass everything does...but there will sadly always be a hole in your heart since it was your first child no matter how far along you were...! I lost mine at 6 weeks and it was my first also! I also just was so mad with God but i found a way to turn that hate into something different i started doing stuff i love! And my mood started to slowly get better it will be 2 months for me on the 21 of March...and we r starting right away i waited to make sure i had a normal period and started to track my ovulation right away...i also balled my eyes out the first time we had sex it was just so hard....so many emotions!! You will be in my prayers and i hope you start feeling better soon this site was a God sent to me and its helped so much to talk to women that know how your feeling! And never let anyone tell you how fast you should get over this i had a lot of that with my family...Sending you lots of hugs!

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Anger is part of the grieving process.

It does seem like pregnant women are all of a sudden everywhere. I can't imagine having to deal with 3 pregnant co-workers. Are they aware of your loss? Do you feel comfortable asking them to tone it down around you for a little while? These are just suggestions. I understand you have to make the best decision for yourself.

My husband and I just started having sex again this past weekend and it is a little wierd. We used a condom both times because it's only been 3 weeks since my d&c and I want to to wait until my body is ready before we try again.

Your hormones and emotions are all over the place right now. You are allowed to cry whenever you need to.

I really hope you feel better soon. I'm here if you need to talk.

im sorry for your loss. It is very hard not feeling, angry, upset, mad and jealous at other people. I have to tell you I had my miscarriage 3 months ago and things have gotten a little easier but im still crying over my loss and am upset when other people i know are pregnant and im not. its difficult to deal with when you want something so bad. im battling the same same feelings of being upset with God and just wondering why. were not planning to try again just yet because I feel that my emotional state isnt good right now. I think as time goes on maybe things will be a little easier. I hope you feel better and we are all here for you.

Thank you all for your kind words. It is very difficult for me right now. My co-workers know that I had my miscarriage and they know that I am still grieving. Its hard beacause I hate being the Debbie Downer and I want them to enjoy their experiences but its so hard hearing it ALL the time. Im not sure how to ask them to tone it down so I just try ignoring it. My doctor said that I can start trying again after my first normal period, but I dont know how i feel about trying again and when to start. My husband doesnt like to talk about the miscarriage anymore and he just ignores me. So feel really alone. A good to know there are women out there who are experiencing the same thing. Thank you ladies

I am so sorry for your loss and I can totally relate to being angry, sad and scared... I lost two angels this year and it's hard but I have to say that until it happened to me I was completely naive to the pain a woman goes through when she has a miscarriage. I probably said and did all the wrong things but I know now that I was just ignorant - I didn't know any better. Please hang in there and know that your feelings will pass, get less overwhelming and you'll begin to feel happy again. My doctor told me I could start trying again as soon as I had my period. Hugs to you!

I am very sorry for your loss. March 27th will be 3 months since I lost mine. I can defenitly relate to you with how hard it was to go back to work. A girl I work with got pregnant the same time that I did. I really am happy for her but it is also so hard watching her progress knowing that I should be going through all the same exciting things. It is also hard to talk to people who dont understand and who have never been through this before. I know they are trying to be nice and trying to help but some things people say can be hurtful simply because they just dont understand. Right after our loss my husband was amazing and the best support. But now he to is getting sick of talking about it and wants me to move on. It is so comforting to finally have some place to talk that everyone knows how you are feeling. Once again I am so sorry for your loss. It is defenitly one of the worst kinds of pain. Please let me know if you need to talk.