no words of advice, just lots of hugs for you. feel better. it does get better. and don't think this is the word's way of saying you're not supposed to be a mother. it's saying just not right now. feel better.

I'm sooooo sorry for your loss. I just lost my baby @ 16 weeks pregnant. Allthough I haven't suffered two miscarriages, I understand the painful void you are feeling. I surely don't believe that you are not meant to be a mother. Get connected with a good dr. Join support groups. It sure makes it a lot easier to talk with other women who really know what you are going through. Just like you got through this last year you will find strength to get through it this year. You'll have good days and bad days. I feel your pain and I will say a prayer for you.

Sweetie, I am so sorry you are going through this. I completely understand how you are feeling, as I just had my second miscarriage 5 weeks ago. I promise that you will start feeling better, just have hope. I have been exactly where you are, but just remember, that you are absolutely meant to be a mother! I questioned God and whether I was supposed to be a mother, but in the end I realized that sometimes bad things like this happen to good people (people that deserve to have children) and there is absolutely no reason for it. I have faith that we will all have children, we just have to make it through this time and persevere! Please let me know if you need anything. I agree completely with msjello, that it may just not be the right time. It will happen for us when it is meant to. Lots of hugs for you:)

I know how lonely and hopeless it seems. The one thing that has kept me going is the fact that a lot of issues associated with recurrent miscarriage are treatable. So, I would recommend getting the entire scope of testing from immunological to chromosomal to see if there is anything you can do to prevent it. Though this doesn't change what has happened in the past, there is still hope for future successful pregnancies.

I understand that void all to well. I lost twins at 15 weeks in December and just lost my second pregnancy on Friday,at 8 weeks. It is a devastating blow. I don't have any advice for you except allow yourself the time you need to grieve. Also, lean on us. We have all been there and know what it's like. Even though everyone grieves different and each situation is unique, we know the pain and emptiness of losing our little ones. Im here if you need me.

I am so sorry for your loss. I had a m/c a 12 weeks on Feb 1st of this year and I felt so empty. It is hard to give advice sometimes as the situations are so different, but please take care of yourself and grieve. I had to and still do and it has been over 2 months. I am here if you ever need to talk or just need someone to listen:)

The second loss was more devastating for me too (which I didn't think that was even possible). Just survive moment to moment. Know that it does get better. You are grieving now, but you will live fully again. We are here for you, but if that isn't enough, get professional help. I did and it made all the difference in helping me find my way back to life. I will be thinking of you. Take care!

I lost two babies one right after the other. I wanted to give up at first too, and there were many moments where I honestly didn't think I would make it. You will get through it. It will take time, lots of it, maybe even more than the first time, and lots of support from those around you, whether it be your significant other, family, friends, or this site. My only advice is that when they offer their assistance, just take it. Take care of yourself. Make sure you take time for yourself, no matter how much time you need.
The other thing that is helping me still is getting testing done. Even though we're not having much luck in ttc right now, just getting answers makes me feel proactive and like I'm making progress. It still gives me hope. I would take some time for yourself, but don't give up yet.

I'm so sorry for your losses. Please don't feel that you aren't meant to be a mother. I think it is quite the opposite-- you already are a mother and you've felt the depth of pain that only a mother can feel. And when you one day get your baby who will be with you here, you will also be able to enjoy every aspect of him/her in a way unlike someone who has not gone through these difficult experiences. Hugs.

Sorry for your loss! Geez what is it about the shower? I cry there almost everyday. I also feel empty and hopeless. But I am told it will get better. I don't feel that way now, I cried this am pouring coffee...but I can feel it coming. With the help of my thearapy groups and this site. The one thing I tell myself is I have to heal to get pregnant again..body and mind! Don't try to do this alone. Have you tried a grief support in your area?