I just had a miscarriage and it helps me to read stories of women who have had miscarriages and still have healthy babies. A friend of mine had 3 and has a beautiful girl! Don't lose hope. Nothing that you did! If you want one so badly it will happen!

I have had two miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy, but I also have two healthy children. My doctor found that my progesterone levels were low and I started taking supplements for the first trimester. They did bloodwork as soon as I found out I was pregnant and I started the supplements right away. That may be something you could have your doctor check. I hope you get a healthy pregnancy.

My sister had six miscarriages before finally having her son. I had one son, then miscarried my daughter Nora Jane, then carried my second son to term. I tell everyone to look for an OB/GYN who knows NaPro technology. These doctors are usually Catholic (I'm Catholic) because artificial insemination relies on many embryos being destroyed. The success rate of in vitro fertilization is abysmal--usually less than 10%. But NaPro doc's go looking for the REASON you're miscarrying or not conceiving at all. In us (my sisters and me) it was a genetic problem called PAI 4G/5G. My sister was given synthetic antidiuretic hormone aka DDAVP or Desmopressin. Hemophiliacs use DDAVP too.
Most OB/GYNs graduate medical school thinking PREGNANCY is a SICKNESS, and the BC Pill is "the cure." If you've been "fooling your body" into thinking you're pregnant (which is what the Pill does) it can take a long time before it "forgets" and starts getting back to normal. Look up NaPro online, because I'm pretty sure there's a list of doctors online who solve these mysteries a LOT.
So many women view fertility as an enemy in high school, and then are shocked that the Pill was not their friend. I think of how we are scared of BPA plastics because they're endocrine disrupters, but we don't think twice about popping the bc Pill every day for years, even though it's a CARCINOGEN. We all bought into the huge Lie.....
Don't give up! Learn your body, feed it well, get any amalgam fillings out RIGHT AWAY, and find a NaPro doc and a GOOD endocrinologist. Even our genetic problem didn't beat us. One child each, and I had TWO. My friend who saw a NaPro dr is pregnant with her THIRD!! They miscarried I think four times, but in the first years they couldn't even conceive. The NaPro Doctor solved the mystery in four whole WEEKS. Never give up hope.
And always name your little ones, they are still your children. I cry every year on that date. But I know she's with God and I ask her to pray for her brothers. When they were in their teens I told them and we talk about her. Just because I never saw her doesn't erase her. Name ALL your children. Hugs to all of you.