Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Once again my heart weeps for a child I will never hold. They say God only give us as much as we can handle....well, who decided that I could handle this much pain?! I feel as if my very soul has been ripped right out of my body and then put back again over and over just to be taken from me again and again.. What have I done in my lifetime that calls for such cruelty? If I were not meant to have anymore children, then why do I continue to concieve just to have them taken from me weeks later? Am I not a good mother? A good wife? Do I not deserve to complete my family? This time I choose not to run from christ. I will not be angry, I will not curse his name. Instead I shall weep openly in prayer and ask that my burden be taken from me. I will ask him to choose the path my future takes no matter where it may lead, and to only spare me anymore suffering, for it has become more than I can bear. "Why?" Has become a question I have been asking so much in the past six months and I just dont think I will ever recieve an answer. So I surrender myself to God, to fate, or whatever else has chosen this for me. I don't know how many more tears I have to shed. Yet, I am still a mother to someone who needs me and if that is all I am destined to be than so be it.
Mantanona
Thank you so much it's a beautiful song.
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Your words have given me a much-needed renewal of strength/faith today. Thank you for sharing your thoughts... they are truly inspirational. The Lord is working through you to help us. God Bless
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I feel for you. And if there is anything I can do just let me know. And God is with you and all of us. Sorry..
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yes what you are saying is so much what I have felt, 3 miscarriages is about all I can handle, I can't do this again....remember that we live in a fallen world, this is the mystery of God why some are given many children and some of 1 or none, it doesn't make sense. I'll stand with you to continue to surrender ourselves to God who can hear our tears and bring us comfort in his time. God Bless and glad you posted your feelings, I agree with the person who said God is using you right now to minster to us. Thank you for giving back when you do not know you are giving back.
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the one thing that does not make ence to me is why are we starting to carry these children and then they get taken from us? why what have we done to have to go threw all this pain and hurt, and confusion that we do. Why? I ask myself what have I done to deserve losing this baby what did I do wrong? Why does god feel that this is a fair punishment for something that we have done? I am sorry but as my doctore put it this was your hopes and dreams and part of your family.
Mantanona
Update Ladies! When I wrote this I was told that it didnt look good for my baby and that I may miscarry again, but yesterday after 4 fours in the emergency room being treated for dehydration I had another ultrasound, and what do ya know...we got a heartbeat. I've been given another chance. I hope the same is to come for each and everyone of you. Keep Praying Ladies! Miracles do happen!
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