Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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shadow11
shadow11
I just had a miscarriage yesterday. I feel so sad and so mad. I don't feel like doing anything.
I'm wondering if I did something wrong.
deleted_user
deleted_user
First of all, honey, I am so sorry for your loss. And no, you did not do anything wrong. Do not blame yourself, even though we all have been there. I miscarried five months ago and I still have days when I feel as you do. With the passing of time, little by little your strength will come back and you will be able to move forward. That doesn't mean you forget...you will never forget. I'm here if you need a friend.
deleted_user
deleted_user
NO you did nothing wrong. I feel the same way. I have moments where i am fine and then I just break down. I also lost my baby 5 months ago. and the pain and frustartion does ease up around 3 months but you still have moments of What could have been... and its ok to be sad and angrey Just hang in there and know we are here : )
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am so sorry for your loss. Please do not ever feel like it is your fault. I still have days when things seem impossible. Lots of warm thoughts and hugs to you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It's not your fault, God just needed another little angel to brighten up the Heavens. I am so sorry for your loss! My prayers and thoughts are with you! It's gonna take some time to heal, but it does get a little easier after some time. It's been a little over a month for me and I'm still having some trouble getting around to doing things. Allow yourself time to grieve and time to heal. Again, I am sorry for your loss!
deleted_user
deleted_user
It is not your fault. I have miscarried twice and I wanted those babies with all my heart. I did all I could to be healthy and get good pre-natal care. It is not any of our faults that this happens. It is just the way that it works out. God works in mysterious ways. Please try not to blame yourself.
deleted_user
deleted_user
oh man, i am so sorry for your loss.. please dont ever think it was your fault....i thought the same thing.. but i know i didnt do anything wrong.
you will feel better in time.. take time to grieve your loss. i cried and cried but each day, i cried alittle bit less then the day before.. its been 1month and 1week since my loss. and i still struggle with certain things.. im here if you ever want to talk hun.... take care of yourself