I know some of you have posted messages here about pregnant friends and/or co-workers and I wanted to share something with you. My friend is pregnant and is due 2 weeks before I was due with my the first baby I m/c. It bothers me that everytime I try to be nice and ask her how her pregnancy is going, how she's feeling and if she's looking forward, she always replies with a complaint. She keeps whining about feeling pregnant and how she's feeling tired and heavy (and she's only 22 weeks)whinig...whining..whining. I feel so horrible that I have decided not to mention it to her anymore. It makes me angry because deep in my heart I wish I could still be pregnant even if I had to feel heavy, bloated or tired. She makes it seem like carrying a child is the biggest pain the butt and takes her pregnancy for granted. I know what being pregnant is since I have a living child that I carried full term and I enjoyed every minute of it even when I felt sick. I have also thought that maybe she's doing it so I don't feel bad. What do you ladies think?
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