Miscarriage Support Group
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I haven't posted in the forum in forever it seems like. I don't know if I have even posted since my fourth loss (I've now lost 5 angels).
My younger sister- barely 18- is pregnant by an abusive man. She isn't ready for a baby. She quits every job she gets because she hates working. She is driving illegally. Has warrants for her arrest for bailing on fines. She isn't the least bit responsible.
Here I am, going on three years of trying & 5 losses. Five. FIVE. I have a good job for the most part, full coverage health insurance, my husband is in the military, we have a brand new car. 2 bedrooms place about to upgrade to a 4 bedroom that can be converted to a 6 bedroom (has two "extra" rooms used as a workout room and a game room) and we have no debts other than our car loan that we have never been late on and an old hospital bill I am paying off...Which there is $1000 left so it wont be long. We are great with kids. We are responsible. We don't do drugs and only drink socially and honestly I'm usually the designated driver. We're married, and have been for a year.
There's no reason why we don't deserve children. We've never done anything to deserve this... And yet, here we are with empty arms while my immature sister gets what we're dying for...
She finds out the gender on Thanksgiving. Which is also our first wedding anniversary. 11/22/12... 12/22/12 should have been the first birthday of our 3rd angel... And our 5th should have been due on 11/2/12. This is so unfair. I don't know what to do. I found myself crying for the first time in months over this tonight. :(
My younger sister- barely 18- is pregnant by an abusive man. She isn't ready for a baby. She quits every job she gets because she hates working. She is driving illegally. Has warrants for her arrest for bailing on fines. She isn't the least bit responsible.
Here I am, going on three years of trying & 5 losses. Five. FIVE. I have a good job for the most part, full coverage health insurance, my husband is in the military, we have a brand new car. 2 bedrooms place about to upgrade to a 4 bedroom that can be converted to a 6 bedroom (has two "extra" rooms used as a workout room and a game room) and we have no debts other than our car loan that we have never been late on and an old hospital bill I am paying off...Which there is $1000 left so it wont be long. We are great with kids. We are responsible. We don't do drugs and only drink socially and honestly I'm usually the designated driver. We're married, and have been for a year.
There's no reason why we don't deserve children. We've never done anything to deserve this... And yet, here we are with empty arms while my immature sister gets what we're dying for...
She finds out the gender on Thanksgiving. Which is also our first wedding anniversary. 11/22/12... 12/22/12 should have been the first birthday of our 3rd angel... And our 5th should have been due on 11/2/12. This is so unfair. I don't know what to do. I found myself crying for the first time in months over this tonight. :(
Good man, good marriage, good home, good job..........babies will come, too! Keep the faith sister!
Btw, have u done any testing at all? What does your doctor say?