Yes honey, I do. I feel so betrayed by my co-workers/"friends" that I am quitting my job.
I got NO support from anybody and it really hurt. I m/c on Jan 5th so we are at similar stages I suppose? I see your beautiful dog in your picture! He/she will never leave your side...my puppy has helped me tremendously.

Oh I'm so with you.. thanks for the reply... I'm searching for a new job aswell just because the people at my facility are complete idiots and heartless.. I told them I wanted it kept confidental and some how the whole facility now know's. Wtf!

i just told my best friend tonite. she nodded. That was it. people can be cold when they dont know what kind if reaction to have...

as fer them talkin about it... and you being part of their gossip mill... yep. id leave too. thats really crappy. people suck!

I so sorry for your loss. I remember how awful I felt after each of my losses. My last was in 07 and some days it still comes back and knocks me off balance. It does get easier eventually. There is no getting over it, just moving past it.

I understand how you feel as to regards of wondering if you'll ever get out of the sadness.
The answer is,
Yes you will.

It takes some longer than others, I'm not a fast mover when it comes to hopping out of this miscarriage depression.

It's been 5 months since my miscarriage and I'm at the begining of getting back to normal.

My house is such a mess, it's actually disgusting, I had to wash the floors four times in a row to get the flith of neglect cleaned away.
My house is usually fairly spotless everyday, but I hadn't cleaned properly since September.

I've been managing by viewing my needs as an achievement, because they have been, it's been an achievement to get out of bed somedays,
and other days an achievement to cook dinner, and I would congratulate myself infront of my husband for half doing some laundry,
because that's how hard it was for me to function properly at home.
Outside of the home I've become quiet and withdrawn as that's the only way I can concentrate enough to get work done.

I am getting better day by day and don't think that the pressure to rush back into normal helped to begin with.

You say it seems like yesterday, and that isn't so inaccurate, Jan 11th is not a long time ago at all.

Please go more easy on yourself and allow yourself to feel how you need to feel.

I have had no support from anyone other than my husband, and that's only because I have demanded it of him.
People just don't get it, they think that we had a period and oops we're not pregnant anymore.
They don't associate it with the acutal loss it is, and if they do it's not certain they'd know the right words.

I wish you strength and hope you are able to heal quicker than I.

With Love
Jo X

I am sorry that you guys are going through this at work. I didn't tell anybody that I was even PG except four people and we don't talk about it so it works for me.

I know so how you feel. Mine was on Jan 3 so like sdmilier we are around the same time. My sister who is my best friend, we've been through everything together, but she keeps telling me not to dewll on it anymore and to move on. One of the hardest things is that she doen't know how I feel and I feel so lonely. I told her that I couldn't go see my cousin-in-law's baby when he's born in May, and she told me to get over it and go see the baby. I don't know if I'll be ready.

Also, people have told me to through myslef in something else so I don't think about the m/c too much and I've tried to do that. My dream before I got PG was to go to grad school and that is what I was trying to do before PG and now I can't seem to do that. It seems like I resent studying for the GMAT.

Okay this is long so I'll just say I'm sorry and it sucks.