Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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nickerd00dlex0 10/05/2011

For a few days now I've felt the NEED to cry and let everything out. But for some reason, as if my body doesnt already hate me enough, it won't let me cry either. I don't know why I can't. I might shed a few tears for a second but I just can't seem to get a good cry going. What can I do??

deleted_user 10/05/2011

What always works for me is a good movie. Steel Magnolias or The Notebook always work. If you want it to be more specific to your loss, maybe google some rememberance things, there are some good poems and things that can express feelings you might be having but can't get out. I hope you find a way to get your release.

deleted_user 10/06/2011

I know the feeling... I keep thinking there's something wrong because it's not normal for me to be this calm. It's been two weeks since my latest miscarriage and I finally broke down for the first time last night but even that felt forced and now I feel even worse. Im planning a trip to my home town this weekend so we can hike out to a favorite place and have a little memorial. Like pregnancy and miscarriage, grief is different for everyone. It may be days, weeks or months before the reality of loss sinks in. I hope you find the release youre looking for.

deleted_user 10/06/2011

I have this problem too. Sometimes, simply talking about it works. I had therapy today and I started talking and eventually the tears started flowing.

Other things that work for me are listening to songs like Angel by Sarah McLaughlin and Who You'd Be Today by Kenny Chesney. Sad movies like Peg suggested do it for me too.

Sorry for your loss.

Kat

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