Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
I guess I'm just needing a few kind words. I don't know what's wrong with me. I was almost asleep in bed and had tv on and there was a commercial for banking cord blood. It started out, "Are you pregnant?" and I just instantly got an upset stomach and started crying. It's just still so unreal, even though it's been about 3 1/2 weeks. I go through my days mostly ok but every now and then the reality just hits me. I started thinking about that we'd be in our second trimester by now, I might be showing, etc. Anyway, I can't seem to get myself together. It's so helpful though, knowing that you ladies are out there, going through the same thing and understanding where I'm coming from. My poor husband just stares at me like I'm a crazy person. I hope you all are having some peace and some sleep tonight.
So many of them have happy pregnant women and fat babies. You're definitely allowed to cry - it may even be compulsory :) when these stupid ads come on the telly. Tell your husband that this is a rule and that there's nothing he can do about except provide hugs, tissues (and possibly chocolate if you don't feel physically sick) :(
It will get better. 3.5 weeks after a miscarriage you're still in an awful place. It will get better - you just have to get through this horrible time.