First, please accept my condolences for your recent loss. I am so sorry you have had to deal with the pain and isolation of a m/c. Your feelings are not uncommon. Grief is a fluid process with many stages including shock, anger, denial, acceptance and healing. The stages are not linear and you can jump around from one stage to the next and even move back into another one even when you think your done with it. I have had several m/c as well. My last one was in Dec. and yesterday I was crying so hard if felt like it was just happening, even though I have felt good for months!
Accept that you are probably going to feel this loss for awhile. Then reach out to DS friends who understand, just as you've done. You are strong and you will get through this in time, I promise. Until you are feeling better be gentle to yourself, allow those feelings of anger and sadness to come out so you can heal.
I wish I had a magic wand that would make it all go away! Instead, please accept my heartfelt support. Many hugs.

Know that you aren't alone! I joined this morning, because I needed to hear and be heard from women that understand what it is like. Friends and family are supportive, but only people that have experienced can understand. We're here for you. Have you thought about talking to your doctor? There are so many hormonal changes that take place... just a thought. Let me know if you need anything... my thoughts are with you.

I am so sorry for your loss and that you are feeling so sad. Please know that you are not alone and that you are perfectly normal. I lost my baby in May and I still have bad days or moments in the "Ok" days where I feel like my heart is breaking all over again. I've read posts from others here who have lost their babies a year ago and still grieve. A family friend from church who's in her 70's cried when she told me about how she lost her baby over 50 years ago. You are allowed to be sad. I'm sorry that you don't have anyone close to you who understands so you can talk about it, but know that all of us are here for you anytime.

I lost our baby girl in May 08 and I have had the same feelings of uncontrollable sadness and grief. I think I'm ok for a few days or weeks and then something happens to trigger the sadness all over again. I'm just trusting in God that he is in control and I guess maybe our babies were needed in heaven more than we needed them here, even though I can't even imagine that. hang in there and I am praying for you.

Thank you so much for your support ladies, I am feeling a little better today, but I am still going to call my doctor this week. I think I need something to help me over this hump. I hope you all are doing okay and I can't thank you enough your kind words and support, big hugs to all of you!!!!

I am glad you are feeling some better. Keep us posted on how you are doing. Sending prayers your way.

I just wanted you to know that I understand what you are feeling. After my m/c all I ever heard was to be glad for my two little girls....well of course I am! I hated feeling like I couldn't even take care of them during the day just because of how depressed I had allowed myself to get. Fortunatly for me....I had "accidentally" =-) gotten prego again just 2 months after the m/c and everything seems to be going great. Though...I still fear the worst EVERY SINGLE DAY! I was always someone who had complete control over my life and almost every moment could be predicted....until the m/c. I think it bothered me most knowing that things like that could happen and I had NO CONTROL over it! I still feel that my life is completely out of my hands....when truly it is....I just have to leave it all up to God and trust that everything happens for a reason.

Hi,
I am so sorry for your loss. I understand what you mean about feeling like you are going crazy. I still feel that way sometimes and it has been over 3 months since I lost my son. But the grief journey isn't a straight path from point A to point B. You will sometimes take steps forward and sometimes back, and may diverge along the way. Just remember that it's all "normal". And we are all here for you. I find this is the best place for me to come and find people who relate, or who will listen to me.
Though I had a lot of support from people when it first happened, nobody talks to me about it anymore. It's hard b/c I need to talk about it now just as much as I did before.

I had my m/c on Mar. 3, 2008 and I have my days like I am going to lose control of my life. It's hard. So, I feel the same way you do.