Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Has anyone had to deal with this? I only told one friend I was pregnant. My husband and I knowing I was high risk wanted to wait until we were in the clear. I just told my friend I was actively miscarrying and she wanted to come over. I explained that I wanted to be alone and that it was a personal thing for my husband and I to deal with. She got mad at me and I mean really upset took it personally and literally said to me I am mourning too... I was getting psyched to be a god mom. I am speechless and am like are you kidding me...I can't let it go. I put people first every day and I don't even know what to say...I am feeling selfish in my loss and everything tells me that I should be yet that stupid nice part of me says ok are you alright what can I do for you to make YOU feel better...thats messed up. Angry tonight ladies. WOW doesn't even sum it up.
So now on top of your grief you have to worry about an outsiders feelings?
Take you time to mourn, deal with her and her feelings later on. You need to come first right now, if she can not understand the type of loss you had and why you need to be alone with your partner then you really don't need her around right now. You'd be consoling her when you need to let yourself grieve.
i hope she comes around and sees for herself how selfish she is being