Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Well girls, I guess I was wrong and was not careful enough. I had posted a message yesterday about heavy bleeding and a positive hpt and was due for blood work. Well, My blood test result came back POSITIVE!
There is a new pregnancy. The problem is that the bleeding may be indicating a miscarriage. My Dr. will do another blood test on Mon. to see if the hCG levels dropped. If that is the case, I miscarried AGAIN. If they are the same, it means I am in fact pregnant. I had what seemed to be a heavy period and that might have been the m/c. I feel so confused and hurt. I did not have my 1st AF after D&C and was supposed to wait 2 cycles to ttc. I feel like I was irresponsible by not being careful enough. I'll leave it in God's hands. if it is meant to be then it is. I just don't want to be heart broken again. Pray for me please...
There is a new pregnancy. The problem is that the bleeding may be indicating a miscarriage. My Dr. will do another blood test on Mon. to see if the hCG levels dropped. If that is the case, I miscarried AGAIN. If they are the same, it means I am in fact pregnant. I had what seemed to be a heavy period and that might have been the m/c. I feel so confused and hurt. I did not have my 1st AF after D&C and was supposed to wait 2 cycles to ttc. I feel like I was irresponsible by not being careful enough. I'll leave it in God's hands. if it is meant to be then it is. I just don't want to be heart broken again. Pray for me please...
what to do? this is what worked for me: a bad attitude is not going to increase the odds of my pregnancy surviving. and what's done is done. nothing to change now except committing yourself to a positive outlook in hopes that things will work out.
(don't bother checking my journal, next pregnancy failed d/t chromosomal abnormality) (...not due to "getting pregnant too early")
i found that it's worthless to direct your thoughts backward to what you feel might have been a mistake. direct them toward something that may or may not help: vitamins daily, rest when you can, get plenty to drink, smile when possible, gather your strength in case the bleeding does mean something bad. but blaming yourself is a waste of your energy.
my thoughts are with you and i am hoping for the best. sending some strength and resolve your way.