Miscarriage Support Group

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Feeling Awful today

lina2008
lina2008
I'm having a shocking day today. I've started spotting and I just know that I will get the dreaded DH'd cousins baby was born and every one is so exited any minute (I'm convinced it will happen as soon as my period sets in full force.

I feel like I will never be a mother and that the little baby I miscarried will be the only child I will ever have.

I now know that I will be facing xmas childless. that while everyone else sits there with their precious babies, my baby will not only be absent, but also unremembered.

my world is spinning and I can't stop it. I feel no piece, not when I sleep nor when I am awake. When will this all end! when will the torture end!!!

I just don't know how to cope
deleted_user
deleted_user
I fill the same way. It like a circle of hell and I keep going in this circle and were is no way out. I am just trying to take each day, each hour at the time. It the only way to survive. Big Hug
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree...you have verbalized exactly how i'm feeling also. I read that line and stopped, and then re-read it. I feel the same way about all of it. It's a terrible feeling in the pit of your stomach and you feel like nobody understands. :( I sat there on thanksgiving...having my 2 m/c and I couldn't think of one thing to be thankful for. I know you feel like you're alone with how you feel right now...but I'm telling you, you're not.

Thanks for sharing your feelings, you may not realize it, but it helps others. Here's hoping it gets easier for both of us.