Miscarriage Support Group

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lynnie1
lynnie1
I feel so hopeless and I cant help but feel responsible for my baby's death after all he/she was perfectly alive just not in the right place I have nightmares still about the doctor cutting me open to find this little fetus happily swimming only to rip it out and take part of me with. will I ever feel right again am I stupid to feel so bonded to a life I never met
deleted_user
deleted_user
No matter what you're feeling, you're not stupid. It's absolutely normal to feel a bond even if you've never met your baby. I think it's important to feel that bond, i know it's helped me cope knowing that my baby is waiting for me in Heaven.
Zayannee
Zayannee
Lynnie... Youre not stupid at all! Dont ever say or think that again! We all miss our babies and you have every right to be upset. You created that life you should feel a bond. Were all here to help you!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Lynnie, what happend to you is NOT your fault and you are definitely not stupid for feeling a bond to your child. I have so many questions about my son and I blame myself for alot of things though I know deep down inside there was nothing I did wrong. It's totally natural to want to blame yourself, but realize there is nothing you did. DS is a wonderful site and it hasn't helped out alot! I hope you find that it helps you.

I am really sorry for your loss.
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