Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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Devastated

S.L.L.
S.L.L.

I just had a miscarriage this past weekend. I am in desperate need of advice and support. My husband has been wonderful and loving but I still need help. 


I already find myself being jealous of others who have what I don’t. I feel bitter and angry toward them. Why me? 


I just don’t know what to do with myself at this point.

Thailan
Thailan
Hello,
I don't have any words to help make you feel better but I wanted to reach out and tell you that I just had a miscarriage yesterday and in to this morning. You are not alone. I, too, am grasping for whatever I can to relieve the mental anguish.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I am here if you need to talk.
S.L.L.
S.L.L.
Thank you for reaching out. I am sorry to hear about your loss.
Easter yesterday was very difficult as I had to go out to church and act as though everything is just fine when it most definitely is not. My husband is a pastor and no one but our parents knows about what we have been through.
It is terrible to say but it made me sick seeing all of the happy families there.
vsalalex
vsalalex
I feel the same way. I see other pregnant women and I just feel myself becoming green with envy. I don’t understand how some women use drugs and still manage to have a child. I took care of myself and lost the baby. I hope that you know you are not alone. ❤️
S.L.L.
S.L.L.
I don’t understand it either about how people who don’t even want kids have them all the time and here I am struggling.
I want to try again but I am so fearful. If it happens again the excitement will be overshadowed by fear and stress.
I worry that there is something wrong with me and that is what caused this.
Thank you for saying I am not alone. I needed to hear that because I feel very alone at this point. I feel like I have just been existing the past week and not really living.