I am so sorry for your loss, you will find great support on this site. For me, when I had my D&C (13 weeks ago) it was sort of a relief because I knew I could officially "move on" and my body could start to heal. Emotionally I wasn't ready because I didn't want to let go. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry.

Tomorrow will be a tough day, there's no nice words for it. Just come home, and go to bed. Have someone bring or buy you dinner for a few nights, because you won't want to be cooking. One thing that helped me was getting a whole bunch of magazines to flip through to keep my mind occupied. It was a treat, a diversion, and about the only thing I could really do. Also, since you say you have other children, get someone to take them for a day or few hours to give you some quiet time.

Take care, you are in my prayers.

I am so sorry for your loss, I miscarried last Monday, one week ago tonight, I too had a feeling that something was wrong with this pregnancy from the first day I found out I was pregnant. My friends tell me that you are aloud to feel like the world has stopped, because for you and your family it has. I was scheduled for a d&c last Tuesday, I ended up having a natural miscarriage that evening, I passed my baby by 3:30am and it was a horrible experience. So I didn't have my d&c. Tomorrow will be an extremely hard day for you, please know that you have support in your family, if you need anything please feel free to write. Good luck and I will be thinking of you!

I am sorry for your loss. We are all here to support you. I lost my twins in Dec. 2007 and I lost an angel in April. It is never easy. Allow yourself to feel what you feel and hang in there. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I am so sorry for your loss. I had no idea there was something wrong when they informed me that my baby had no heart beat at almost 9 weeks. I thought the D and C would help me move on, but it tore my heart to have them take my baby from me. Emotionally you will probably not feel any better after the D and C. You will need a lot of support from friends and family and you will find a lot of support here. You are in my thoughts and paryers.

I am so sorry for what you are going through. My D&C was three weeks ago. For me, after the D&C it seemed better, mostly because I looked at it as a way to move forward. I think I looked at it that way because this was my first pregnancy and I have no children... I think it's helped me to move on by focusing on ttc again. I will be thinking of you today while you're going through your D&C. I hope that things will get better soon.

i am so sorry. i was scheduled to have a dc but didnt make it til then and went naturally. my thoughts and prayers are with you. keep your faith and hold it tightly..it will help you through this. hugs!

With my miscarriage, I started miscarrying naturually but had emergency D&C. Every miscarriage is different, but I would not choose to begin to miscarry naturually like I did again. I consider myself lucky because I got a room and a nurse right away and a doctor shortly afterwards. I think that if I had been in your situation befoer that, it would have been a hard decision to have D&C. If I would be pregnant with a baby with no heart beat again though, I would have D&C.
I considered the whole experience a negative irreversable change. For you though, the irreversible change has already happened. Your baby will not ever turn into a live baby no matter what you hope or do. The D&C makes the finality of this real. The good thing is that it enables you to start to heal and if you want to try again, your body will be ready sooner.

I'm so sorry for your lost. I had a D&C in Feb., and felt numb for awhile. What helped was knowing I had to be strong for other 2 children. I have my good days and bad. Coming to this website has helped a lot, everyone here is wonderful. May God Bless you and give you strength!